Monday, May 30, 2016

Is It Wrong to Have Fun on Memorial Day?


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I have seen many articles, posts, and comments in the news, on blogs, and on social media, reminding all of us here in the US that Memorial Day is not all about cookouts, camping, and trips to the beach. These writings, memes, and posts remind us of the real reason for Memorial Day. Some of them include heart rending pictures of a war widow camped out next to her fallen husband’s grave stone at a national cemetery.

Indeed, Memorial Day has been set aside as a day for America to remember all those who gave their lives in military service to the defense of our country. The holiday began as Decoration Day in the aftermath of the American Civil War when General John Logan, commander of the Grand Army of the Republic, declared a day for the purpose of decorating the graves of fallen Union Soldiers.

Memorial Day was legally set as the last Monday in May by Congress in 1971, when Congress set most federal holidays on Mondays to create three-day-weekends for federal employees. In the years since, Memorial Day has become the unofficial start of the summer recreation season. As a result, many people feel the original reason for Memorial Day has become lost or diluted.

I tend to disagree. As I tell my students, what better way to honor the sacrifice of those who gave their lives for our freedom than to celebrate that freedom. The people I meet when camping on Memorial Day have not forgotten why they have this holiday to enjoy. Each one I talk to is thankful for the men and women who were willing to give the last great measure of devotion to our country so the rest of us could be free to have a cookout, get together with friends, enjoy a day at the beach, and otherwise celebrate all the things the sacrifices of those who died for us have earned for us.

Memorial Day is a day for us to reflect on the cost of our liberty, but I do not feel it should be a day to wallow in sorrow over those who were lost paying that price. Remember them, yes, remember them with pride and heart-felt gratitude. Raise a glass to their memory, praise them for their willingness to offer their lives for our nation’s freedom. And pray there will always be those among us who, when our country calls, will answer the call on behalf of us all.

My students understand well the old mantra, “Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it.” (George Santayana) Let us all take time on Memorial Day to remember what we have learned of the price of our freedom, and to enjoy that freedom in the name of those who paid that price for us.

As always, I remain,

The Exhausted Educator

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